One Thing
Spirit says, “ Don’t let anything, including your grief, get in the way of your one thing!”
Allow nothing and no-one to deter you from your path. Only you know the absolute way — the way of healing, and opening your heart. If there is no such thing as good and bad, right and wrong, where lies the neutral?
Within the distance between action and reflection.
So take four days to tell me how you feel; text to ask a question and allow less than four hours a response…
The mirror reflection is refracted within the notion that all of the actions are mine. Which one are the reactions? What about when Spirit steps in to play — to protect?
What do I say to these in the way? The ones rippled into hurt as a tyrant forges path and burn you by their fire?!
The Reformation Reclamation
I always thought I was the one to burn the bridges, from mistreatment, jealousy, anger for the lack of reciprocity. This time the spark was ignited by hate and declarations of intolerance and thus my firm belief I was in the absolute wrong time and place. It’s 20fucking25 and we shouldn’t have to be hiding from Source or The Truth. I am not part of the problem. I am a solution to problems:: I hold the keys to end my own suffering and should be allowed to teach that to others. Yet, if I am in a space that does not allow me to be free and supported and alive and witchy and queer then where I am serving?
Theivery
When I talk about reciprocity — it isn’t only a photographic term relating to the focal distance of the lens to the subject and back to the mirror within the camera — it’s an energetic exchange that must be of equal energetic values. For one to give, one must take. In order to receive, one must give.
I know when I take it is because I think I deserve MORE. I want more than what I currently have. So I go and take it. I think it isn’t hurting any one but the energetics it pulls back to me threefold can be gruesome. I have seen it in sublte ways and I have seen the drama of it all.
And that is exactly what a bitch be trying to do in our minds. Take from us, something we care about, because we are not the spitting out factor of society, we forget that things can be “fun” because it is not actually that fun to have to take care of yourself every day. It is not actually fun to do the work day in and day out, thinking you are getting ahead, caught up even, only to be pushed out, kicked back to square one, needing to start fresh and over again. It is not fun having to shift and make adjustments, change to make others comfortable. It is not fun not knowing what to say when someone presents something so off the cuff disgusting and downright outcasting of others in the group!
It is not fun and certainly uncomfortable being made to feel like one must change in order to fit in!
Or remotely be acceptable.
The other Side OF The coin
The lesson is in spotting the lie, the moment you tell yourself “It’s okay,” when it isn’t.
Are both your feet out the door?
I was in the go off position anyway — they just want to take the ounce of power they had afforded me back to make it seem like they are in control. All the while it is my space, the way I HOLD SPACE, my voice, my tender care and affection towards my students and the relationships with Self to One that I was carving meaning for.
What do I say to those still learning this?
What will they say back to me?!
You will have to “make up a story” about why I am not in here,” you want a communication problem? Show up, no contact! The ghosting theory.
Here lies the situation that creates divides break belief systems. Hold space, for yourself. Tenfold — and continue to do so in ripples.
I know what my next workshop is about! I know when I should host and launch again. I know my one thing! I know my focus and so allowing the four days to realign, to purge my won chakras is good for me. Seems like we can hop right into focusing on the *one thing* to get that ball rolling uphill again…
The Purge
There will be a visual severing. Can we ever really relinquish connection? As if it is all our fault?
What if all traces of past connections were removed and erased? And. We Begin. Again.
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