We cannot become who we need to be by remaining who we are.

Expose yourself to your deepest fear.  After that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes.  You are free.

Who you are is who you have always been meant to be.  There is no finding yourself.  That is as if you knew yourself then lost it.  Own up to who you are. Be who you want to be.  Create the life you want to have and be happy with everything that you give yourself.